The Lux Delux

Treasures from Brimfield

2011-09-20T10:33:00.001-05:00

My very first Brimfield was cool, rainy, and muddy. We left the house at 6:15 in the morning and I was decked out in my Hunters, Burberry trench and went searching for treasure. The first part of the morning was long with poking into cramped booths and finding nothing but nil. We waited for one special field, "Dealer's Choice," to open and that's where we found a few things. We went looking for art and objects; any pieces that could be used to accessorize our home and built-ins, once they're built. We found old Spalding juggling pins (with perfect patina), a pair of George Nelson oversized cast iron jacks, and a huge light bulb. Not wanting it to break, I carried the light bulb around like it was a bouquet of flowers. It got a ton of looks, and one guy asked what I was going to do with it. My friend Sheri told him that I "have a really big lamp."

One bit I wasn't expecting were the buyers from Ralph Lauren, Tommy Hilfiger, and J.Crew. Sheri warned us about them, telling us a story of a vendor with wire lockers, and J.Crew had swooped in at 6:30am and bought all 500-something of them she had. You can bet you'll see one in a store near you. We saw the Ralph Lauren guy making a deal on furniture. He'd buy it at whatever price was being asked (takes all the fun out of negotiating) and then a troop of guys would follow around to pick it all up. "This is going to Europe tomorrow!" we heard. That's nice.

Ika(n)t Live Without Ikat

2011-09-11T17:52:00.000-05:00

Once I get an idea in my head I become absolutely fixated. Another design obsession that's been on the back burner of my mind for at least the past year is ikat. Say it like this: eee-kaht. I want to wear it, I want my home to wear it, Molly Cat should wear it too. I find it especially attractive when it looks worn down by love, like a diluted watercolor. What is so attractive to me about the design pattern is that it reads what I'll call, "folk-art-sophisticate." I treated myself to a silk tunic on my birthday last year and I want to treat my boudoir to a rug this year.

Men, Cars and Love

2011-09-04T13:37:00.007-05:00

The most important men in my life not only love me, but they love cars too. It was normal to park at the back of parking lots so we'd never run the risk of door dings. My dad once asked me if I wanted to go look at, "toy cars." Expecting a new Barbie doll, I was majorly disappointed to be driven to a dealership and not the toy store. My grandpa has a small collection of old cars and would drive me around in the powder blue Karmann Ghia convertible that was originally owned by my dad. Michael loves cars too but is more intense about everything from detailing to having a rare model. Typically his work schedule conflicts with all the summer shows, but we've had two opportunities to attend in the past couple months. In June the Volvo 1800 won runner up at a show in Portsmouth, RI and today it won it's class AND Best in Show for Swedish Car Day 2011 in Brookline, MA. Hooray!

Photos (top to bottom)

1964 Volvo 1800S, BMW Z4 M Coupe, 1969 VW Karmann Ghia, BMW Z3 Coupe

An Introduction to Design

2011-08-30T21:37:00.007-05:00

Last year on September 1, 2010 I made a commitment: a mortgage partnership with my main squeeze. For months we searched high and low, far and wide for the perfect space to make our home. To put in plain terms: we are particular. Very, particular. We wanted to buy a place that hadn't been updated in a while so we could make it over. Why pay for someone else's butt-ugly flip-renovation just to rip it out and start over. Last fall was phase one and this fall we're entering phase two. With the resurrection of the blog edition of theluxdelux, I'll share the design story.

Back and I've got the Sweat(s)

2011-08-27T22:51:00.004-05:00

Can you believe a sweatshirt has brought my blog back from the dead? My life has changed big since my last post a year ago but who really cares when all I can think about is a $1,195 Jason Wu wool sweatshirt with baroque lace applique? It seems to be the item of the moment with Marc Jacobs and Givenchy contributing to the laid back sweaty style that will put us back $1000+. If this isn't luxury, what else is?

All I can say is that I've been fighting the urge to splurge on the Jason Wu rather than putting my money towards the second phase of my house renovation. Luckily for me and my mate, my Midwest practicality kicked it and I'll make do without.....the sweatshirt, that is. Hanes has never been so glam.

Photos top to bottom: Jason Wu, Balenciaga, Marc Jacobs

The Dream Lives On

2010-07-01T20:19:00.003-05:00

Alexander McQueen Resort 2011. It's not the same, but I love it still.

Back to the Berkshires

2010-06-27T20:08:00.003-05:00

Friday evening we drove both cars out to the Berkshires. The Tanglewood season doesn't start for another week and a half, but we had access to the house early and had a great weekend of R&R. Went for a jog around the neighborhood, enjoyed some nice meals, and most of all enjoyed each other's company. I just wish we didn't have to come back to the city so soon.

Five

2010-06-13T15:54:00.003-05:00

Thursday, June 10th marked the fifth anniversary of my first date with Michael. After he played a concert at Union Station and I worked a shift at my summer Gap job, we went to Reverse at the Plaza for mojitos. I remember that it was the most fun I'd had in a long time and we finally (after three introductions) hit it off. Times flies when you're having fun.

It's not the caffeine I'm addicted to...

2010-06-09T19:00:00.007-05:00

Before I head out for my walk to work, Michael hand makes me an Americano every morning. He takes very special care in purchasing the best beans he can find, making sure the beans are perfectly ground (yes, there is an art to it), getting the tamp just right, and having the precise 25 second pour of espresso. He makes it personal and it tastes beautiful. Before going to Toronto yesterday, he showed me all of the steps to make sure I could take care of myself while he's away. This morning I did it myself and it was like the movie version of a book: pretty good but not the same. I'm not one who is the demanding type to be waited on...he started doing it for me because he likes the hobby of it and creating the perfect espresso. Plus, everything tastes better when it's made with love.

Speak no evil.

2010-06-05T18:54:00.004-05:00

I went with Mom to her 30 year high school reunion back in 1999. One of the women I met told me that she never heard Mom say anything negative about anyone. When I was younger I remember sharing with Mom how a girl was telling me bad things about another girl. She advised me that it's best not to say anything mean about someone because the person I was sharing that with might wonder what I say about them.

Last fall someone said to me they couldn't believe how big a friend's butt had gotten. I'd only known this person for a few weeks and blurted out, "Makes me wonder what you say about me when I'm not around." I should have kept it to myself (like I always do), but there was no hesitation and no holding back. It completely caught her off guard and I was proud of myself for being so bold (even if by accident).

I'm surprised by what people say (about people they know and don't know) and especially when they broadcast for everyone to know if by blog, facebook, or even at the office. Again, makes me wonder what they say about me when they know I'm not listening or reading.....

She's from Kansas.

2010-06-05T09:38:00.002-05:00

Lindsey Wixson is on the radar. She's 15, from Wichita, Kansas (more Midwest pride for me to boast) and is Miuccia's little star. With her exaggerated jaw and kisser, how can you not love her Miu Miu ad?

Drill Baby Drill

2010-06-03T21:02:00.003-05:00

Don't give me that shit. I am ENRAGED about this oil leak. What makes me even more sick to my stomach is that I feel like I can't do one thing to stop the problem. When the earthquake hit Haiti, a body could travel to help with the cleanup, provide medicine, food, shelter, listen to the people to see what they need for recovery. With this massacre I feel like my hands are tied and that makes the knot in my stomach feel tighter and bigger. How in the world are we going to stop the leak? How are people going to go back to fishing and support themselves and their families? How is the wildlife of our planet going to recuperate from the rape?

When Michael and I were driving to Maine for the holiday weekend, we needed to get gas and the first station we saw was a BP. Rage shouted out of me: Don't go there! Just because we're not in the Gulf doesn't mean we aren't affected by it or that we can't do something to show the injustice we're experiencing.

I hate, hate, hate that I can't stop the leak but what I can do is decrease my use of oil:

1. Use less gasoline. My car has been in storage since August; I walk everywhere or take public transit.

2. Use less plastic baggies. I limit the use of ziplock bags but when I do use them, I wash them out, let them air dry and then reuse them. Thanks for showing me that habit, Mom!

3. No more plastic grocery bags. I always get paper bags and then reuse them for trash bags (thanks again, Mom!) but now I will start carrying in my purse a light weight reusable shopping bag.

4. I am recycling all my plastic, aluminum, glass, and most of my paper. On Earth Day I blogged that that's the one thing I'm not doing that I should be and now I'm back in the habit. M's not as aware of it as I am, but I don't mind pulling out his yogurt cup out of the trash, rinsing it, and putting it in the recycling.

What else can we do to be less dependent?

My First Crush

2010-06-02T19:10:00.002-05:00

My first Hollywood crush was Christopher Reeve. I have no idea who introduced me to Superman, but one of the very few VHS tapes we owned was "Superman IV." I know I watched "Annie" and "Wizard of Oz" more than anything else, but oh, Clark Kent made my four year old heart race. When I went to hear John Williams conduct the Pops a few weeks ago, they played his theme from "Superman" and showed clips on the big screen. It inspired me to watch the movie all over again and thanks to the Boston Public Library, it didn't cost me a dime to take a trip back to my childhood love.

When Christopher Reeve had his devastating horse riding accident, I found the address of the hospital where he was being treated and wrote him a letter. I received a hand written note from his daughter thanking me for the good wishes. It was really nice to hear John Williams speak at the concert about how much everyone enjoyed working with the young man playing Superman and how the crew saw a tremendous future for him. I might add that it was the horn playing in that theme song that made me want to play at age five. It still makes me want to pick up the horn. Love it.

Rising Above It All

2010-06-02T18:52:00.003-05:00

I DVR'd Larry King's interview with Lady Gaga and watched it at 6:30 this morning while doing my hand weight exercises. She talked a lot about the rejection of social standards that can become barriers to a person and how it influences her costumes, music, and life. She said that she didn't have very many friends and was called a "freak" every day. She identified more with men than with women, wanted to dress differently, and was scrutinized for being her. Now look at her: she has millions of fan, great show business success, has won Grammy awards, is a gay rights activist, and seems like a very peaceful yet hard working young woman.

Rising above the name calling, isolation, misunderstanding, and prejudice accusations got me thinking about how we deal with people's reactions. There are some of us who never hear "good job" from a father and struggle a whole life with needing a man's approval. There are the few we hear about in the news who are called, "freaks," go to school with ammo, and gun down their classmates and then kill themselves. And then there are people who hear all the hatred words can hold and it somehow rolls off their back.... It's curious how we all respond differently to a spectrum of problems and how each one affects another differently. One can seem huge to you but small to me.

Black and White at Ballet

2010-05-29T15:44:00.006-05:00

Last night I strayed from Symphony Hall and took the Orange Line to the theatre district to see Boston Ballet perform Black and White. I don't know where to begin, but I'll start with beautiful, interesting, and challenging. Beautiful: the dancers moved with grace and length, portraying phrases in movement that I've been trained to hear in music. The costuming was minimal which isolated focus to the motion. Interesting: the setting was a blank canvas where my imagination was able to to have few interpretation boundaries. In the first piece I saw more lines and shapes than I saw dancers...an ensemble creating a visual effect. There were these classical style dresses (corset with full skirt) that were used as props but I continued to see them as a reference to the classical style. The ballet was very contemporary but the past is always somewhat present, influential, and where one came from (the dresses).

There was one piece that was challenging for my individual. It was a piece for six men and the dresses were looming above them with sharp lighting. The men created their own track of sounds with their voices which were warped through a mic system and sometimes it was so loud and eire that I plugged my ears. It seemed to have a flavor of Sci Fi (perhaps due to the sound effects) that gave me a rush of adrenaline and a quick pulse. It made me think about Alexander McQueen's Spring 2010 runway show. Though I only read about the show, there seemed to be a connection. How bizarre is it that in the same piece, I was reminded of Dick Van Dyke in "Mary Poppins" when he pulled down his trousers to dance with penguins.

I really enjoyed attending the performance and the opportunity of getting to know new and fun people. I'm definitely looking forward to next season!

Model of Alliteration

2010-05-22T15:13:00.004-05:00

Karlie Kloss. Let me tell you something about this girl: she is everywhere! She has opened up for shows like Alexander McQueen Fall 2010, Karl Lagerfeld, six times in a row for a John Galliano designed show..and there's more! She's the face for Marc Jacobs' Lola, the new face for YSL cosmetics, not to mention all the editorials she's photographed for Vogue.

Why do I bring her up? I've always known she's from St. Louis and when Emily was visiting last weekend, I learned even more about her. She told me that her brother who is graduating high school this weekend said there's a really famous model who goes to his school but she's never there because she's always in New York or Europe. Uh oh... I jumped on Emily demanding if it was indeed, Miss Kloss. Turns out it is! Emily and I couldn't get over it and I immediately began showing her pictures in all my magazines, online, and basically going nutty over the whole coincidence. Both of us were radiating Midwest Pride, but Emily was especially beaming. We love her, we love all her siblings (and her parents) who all have the initials, K.K.

A Great Weekend

2010-05-19T20:36:00.009-05:00

Michael picked up Emily from the airport on Friday and when we all met at home, we walked over to India Samaraat, our favorite (and very affordable) Indian restaurant in the area. We popped in next door at Sweet bakery for a cupcake; chocolate rhubarb for me, and Karat cake for Emily and M. We went to see John Williams conduct the Pops and there were even more kids there than Tuesday night! The music was great again and I felt even more inspired to watch Close Encounters and Superman (I've already requested them from the library).

Saturday morning the three of us picked up a Zip Car truck and took it over to Cambridge to retrieve our new bed from DWR. Getting it home was an adventure with Emily's arm out the back window attempting to hold everything in place. We had a yummy lunch at Symphony Sushi and then went for a walk through Back Bay: down Newbury Street, through the garden, on Charles Street into Beacon Hill. We hiked from there over to the South End where we had another amazing dinner at Coppa. Again, there was a crowd of people congregated outside waiting for them to open and were easily seated.

Cross my heart, hope to die, stick a thousand needles in my eye, the food there is amazing! We started with rosemary marinated mushrooms that knocked me off my rocker. I couldn't help my eyes rolling back and moaning...it was a ridiculous experience of flavor explosion. Remembering the experience makes me feel like the bottom is about to drop out all over again! I'm trying to remember what else we had......oh yeah!..Marinated peppers, another glass of that delectable chianti, ponies of Miller High Life, scrumptious homemade pasta with a mighty fresh pesto, M had a pizza, Em had some lovely looking zucchini dish (I'm still having a hard time recalling because those mushrooms dominate my brain!) When we left I was drunk cold on flavors all over again.

Sunday the three of us went for a four mile jog around the Charles River and I ran about 3/4 of the way. I am still super duper proud of myself since I'm not athletic whatsoever and have never taken to running. We had a big, healthy breakfast afterwards and then walked to the SOWA open air market in the South End, down the street from work. I found the cutest vintage skirt (thank goodness the waist measurements were on the tag or I would have never known what could fit) in a kelly green with royal roses down the center front. I can't wait to wear it! When I showed Michael the tag after we got home and I boasted that it was only $15, his reply was: you didn't negotiate?! I'm learning! I'm learning! Emily tried her first JP Licks and I had the new hard yogurt flavor: coconut almond chip; so refreshing!

Sunday evening we cooked out on the roof deck with some friends which was a great end to our weekend together. The view is the best.

I'm so glad my little friend was able to hang with M, Molly, and me for the weekend. We stick together and I've got your back no matter what. Midwest Pride!

We've gone gaga for GaGa

2010-05-12T18:41:00.003-05:00

I've been thinking about a blog entry for Lady GaGa and here it is. She was always on my radar but it wasn't until a few months ago that I went gaga. My moment happened during an early season episode of American Idol when groups of contestants sang Bad Romance a capella. It put my over the edge. After going nutty for Mr. McQueen's armadillo shoes from his Spring show, I felt proud when Our Lady showed them off in a video.

I love it that there's a bassoon quartet at my alma mater who performed a medley of GaGa songs on a recital. Michael showed me another YouTube of a string quartet at Yale doing the same thing. When I went to look for the link to that video, I wound up with all kinds of kids performing their own renditions of her classics.

And tonight on the Evening News, Diane Sawyer showed us the Oklahoma 6th grader's talent show performance. However, my 50-something-year-young-hip-friend had already showed it to me at work today.

I love her style, I love her music, and I can't wait to see what she does next.

I forgot to mention that last May, Michael's then-8-year-old-niece knew all the words to "Poker Face."

Hooray for Hollywood!

2010-05-11T21:28:00.006-05:00

Tonight I went to the Pops to see John Williams conduct his music in the program entitled, "Hooray for Hollywood." What a wonderful concert and Symphony Hall was completely packed....with young people! About a third of the program included a silver screen in which scenes from films were shown as the orchestra played along. Highlights included E.T., the theme from 1941, Star Wars, Harry Potter, Close Encounters of the Third Kind, and the theme from Indian Jones as an encore. I'm going to the show again this Friday with Emily and so I'll be sure to take more pictures. What added to my excitement were all of the YOUNG people eagerly listening to the music, hanging over the rail of the balcony, and taking pictures with their cameras and phones. Is it weird that it seeing them gave me this sensational feeling of pride? Can't wait for Friday!!

Monday dinner

2010-05-11T18:36:00.002-05:00

So we go out a lot but we eat in a lot. We made this (senza pancetta) for dinner (all my faves: pasta, cheese, cream, peas, asparagus, lemon) Monday night and boy was it scrumptious!!

Epicurious never fails in a pinch!

Mother's Day

2010-05-09T17:26:00.008-05:00

Happy Mother's Day. I miss Mom so much but can always feel her with me. Up until my early teens, we had four generations: Grandma C (my great grandmother), Grandma, Mom, and me. My grandma was very enthusiastic about our "four generations" and we would participate in programs at church and Mother's Days were extra special. Now it's just Grandma and me and we know we're lucky to have each other. All I have in Boston are pictures of Mom, Grandma, and me. Next time I'm home I'll get pictures of Grandma C and you can see where Mom got her crazy high cheekbones from.

Love to all the moms who love us, protect us, inspire us, support us, and believe in us.

Let's Hear it for the Pops!

2010-05-07T18:49:00.014-05:00

Tuesday evening was the 125th opening night for the Boston Pops. I was already excited to go to the Pops, but was really, really excited to meet Chef Duff from Ace of Cakes! The concert was great overall with classic John Williams pieces, Idina Menzel, Doc Severinsen, and a Beatles sing along! Each night at Pops there's a surprise celebrity who conducts "Stars and Stripes Forever" and for opening night it was Chef Duff! I was so excited, the audience loved his technique, and I can't wait to see the episode on Food Network. Michael and I even got to have cake afterwards backstage and in the words of Rachael Ray, "Yum-o."

O.....M........G..............

2010-05-06T10:06:00.006-05:00

I had to take a break from work because I CANNOT get over this desk. Maybe one day I'll get the family discount.

Until then.......

Ah, Book Group!

2010-05-03T18:04:00.010-05:00

In KC I found a book group through my gym, Scott Fittness, the best gym ever! River Market Book Group was a neighborhood group of people who cared about books, but I think cared more about the community the group created. After my first few months in Boston, I found a new group to join, Boston Readers, which meets once a month at Trident Booksellers on Newbury Street. These people are serious about reading and bringing interesting discussion to the table. Here are the books we've read since I've been attending:

Mangiara a Coppa

2010-05-01T18:43:00.009-05:00

Eat at Coppa and you will be happy. The newest restaurant from Ken Oringer in Boston is flavored Italian and is near perfect, as always. All we've heard is that it's impossible to get into but when both Michael and I were starving at 4:30, we decided to stake out the place before they opened for dinner at 5:30. There was a crowd of people waiting outside! Whoa! We got a table and I had a beautiful glass of Respiro Chianti. We started with fried balls of risotto and the first thing out of Michael's mouth (when it wasn't full of risotto) was, "I could eat this all day." I had a homemade linguini with smooth, mild clams, and M had homemade pasta with rabe, chickpeas, and spicy sausage. We finished off with homemade gelati: one scoop chocolate and one scoop hazelnut. When we left I had to lean on M for support since I was drunk........on flavor.

Kansas City Hey Hey Hey

2010-04-28T18:34:00.008-05:00

So this past Monday was Patriot's Day (and the Boston Marathon). I took advantage of The Airlines not taking advantage of the holiday and headed home to Kansas City. I had set a tight schedule for the three days and only had a few delays, rearrangements, and missed two stops. All in all it was a great trip with the perfect weather and the perfect people.

Flew in Saturday morning, picked up my $4.98/day (thank you very much) rental car and headed to Arrow Cleaners. I found an amazing jacket in Phoenix at an even more amazing price that needed a good cleaning and I think we all know Arrow is the best, so I mailed it to them. Perfect! Next on the agenda was CVS for a refill and then on to Broadway Cafe (the roasting local) to pick up espresso beans for M. Next stop, the Mill Street Sun Fresh for Arthur Bryant's BBQ sauce; one for M & me and one for a friend at work. On to American Apparael for a last minute pair of tights and then Halls. I could have spent all three days there chatting with friends! On to a lunch date with Angie at West Side Local where we ran into the Nerds of Nerd Bots! Hair appointment at Julie's new salon, Speak! where my appointment ended up taking over three hours. What a delay that neither of us predicted and called for rearranging. On to Jim's swanky house to hang, then a surprise birthday party at the Flea Market (where I indulge with a medium rare cheddar Mini Market and a PBR), then back to Jim's where I nearly passed out.

On to Angie's cutie pie house for the night, a chat in the morning, and then Helga's for breakfast. Oh Helga! She's such a strong woman, inspiring, convicted, and has a warm heart. On to newly weds Albert and Meredith where I got to see their glorious pictures from the wedding M and I regrettably missed in Miami. Next stop was my dad's where I spent several hours catching up and collecting more of Mom's things. An 1 1/2 hour drive down to Emporia to spend the night with my grandparents who had dinner waiting for me, even though I arrived at 8:30 at night. Grandma and I chatted so much about everything under the sun, had lunch with my uncle at the university student union, helped out some with the computer (as I do on all my visits) and then made the 2 1/2 hour drive back to the airport. The non stop flight back to Boston was easy complete with tea and chocolate chip cookies.

The two stops I missed due to time: Hammerpress and Chris Elbow's.

Needless to say, it was a great trip!

best yogurt

2010-04-24T19:52:00.007-05:00

If I haven't mentioned it before, I'll say it again: I love that Whole Foods is out our back door....literally! A couple months ago I noticed a new yogurt on the shelf that caught my eye by the simple packaging and the price...$2.49!!!! $2.49 for a little cup of Icelandic style yogurt? I had to try so I bought just one. It was so different! Velvety thick, clear flavors, and unbelievebly good for you! Better than Greek yogurt! After that I decided I'd buy one a week as a treat to my health. When it went on sale for 3/$7 I went nuts and bought six. Oy! Even still, the price ended up not bothering me after the initial shock because I've got to take care of myself and it's soo goood fooor yoooou!

Moo Moo goes the cow for Siggi's Icelandic Style Skyr Yogurt!

Happy Day for the Earth

2010-04-22T20:53:00.003-05:00

On my walk to work on this gorgeous morning, I was thinking of the ways of how I show our earth my love:

1. I walk to work.

2. I take 3-5 minute showers five times a week.

3. I take a 10 minute shower twice a week when I shampoo my hair.

4. I don't use plastic bags when shopping.

5. I use the paper grocery bag for my trash bag.

6. I eat natural and organic foods that I buy on a need basis so I waste very little.

7. I have only low energy light bulbs.

8. I turn the lights off!

9. I take public transportation.

10. We make a point to buy vintage clothes & furniture; another way of recycling.

11. I turn the water off when I'm washing my face or brushing my teeth.

12. I rescued Molly Cat who was a homeless kitty.

13. I tend plants in my home.

14. I'm not a litter bug.

I'd been thinking about how we need to do a much better job of recycling paper, plastics, aluminum, and glass. I think the primo reason we've been failing at this obvious Earth-loving habit is because 1.) It's not convenient to our building, and 2.) We have virtually no storage to keep a collection of cans and papers between drop offs. My self assignment is to reorganize (my fave hobby) under the kitchen sink to make room for a can/plastic and paper collection. We can do it! Every little bit helps in giving our planet an everlasting hug.

rapunzel, rapunzel, let down your long hair

2010-04-10T11:43:00.007-05:00

I think everyone in fashion cannot get enough of Alexander Wang's Spring 2010 collection. I've read that stylists have been asked to quit using his open toe lace up boots from this particular show as they have been showing up everywhere throughout the industry. I love the clothes, love the shoes, love the makeup, but totally love the hair.

If I only had long hair....

...If I only didn't think salon extensions was a massive waste of money....

For now, I'm working the short version....though still too short to go over the shoulder.

Just because

2010-04-08T21:21:00.003-05:00

I've had a lot of things going on and just haven't felt like creating new entries. Just so this post isn't a total waste, I'll list a few highlights of my recent living...

1. House hunting

2. Trip to Phoenix for Passover

3. Last Chance

4. Leslie's visit

5. Carrot Cake

6. Symphony Concerts

7. Laryngitis

8. Searching for a new handbag

9. Showing Michael all the handbags

10. Managing my undying desire for a new handbag while being mindful of responsible financial management.

Listen to this

2010-03-20T09:21:00.004-05:00

Stan Getz. His playing is lyrical, easy, comfortable, happy, solemn, and I never, ever tire listening to the two albums that I have of his: Jazz Samba and The Essential. Something that I enjoy when listening to instrumental jazz, is knowing the lyrics (if applicable). For example, some of my favorite songs are, "Of Thee I Sing" and "All The Things You Are." I love following all the changes and hearing how he (or anyone) plays it with their own interpretation...but isn't that one of the great attributes of jazz? Seriously, get one of these and put it on while you're up on a sunny morning, relaxing in the afternoon, entertaining, messing around in the kitchen, or on your stroll to work.

BSO

2010-03-18T20:36:00.002-05:00

Tuesday Catherine and I went to the Symphony together and had our hair blown way, way back. Burgos was guest conducting the Iberia Suite (loved it), Prokofiev Violin Concerto No. 1 with Hilary Hahn (amazing), and Rimsky-Korsakov Scheherazade. The entire program start to finish was captivating and felt like an serious indulgence. I haven't heard a concert/performance like this in a long time and gosh did it give me an incredible high. During the Scheherazade I sat on the edge of my seat with my eyes wide and mouth open. Everything the orchestra played was crystal clear, the energy was high, the solo features were near perfection, and I'm getting goosebumps now as I'm recalling the memory of the night.

Lucky Me to be in Boston.

2010-03-18T19:58:00.006-05:00

Not this past weekend, but the week before, we had the most beautiful weekend this year. No kidding! A high of 50 and clear sunny skies was the wish come true for every Bostonian. We went for a 6 1/2 mile walk and the whole city was smiling. We started at Symphony Hall (home), walked past Val Kilmer (Holy Cow Batman/Ice Man!), stopped by India Samraat for lunch, and headed north up Massachusetts Avenue all the way to Harvard Square. We stopped at Crema Cafe for a tea for me and an espresso for Michael. The square is always jammed packed with people, but it was even more so that Saturday. Michael suggested that we walk down JFK and then follow the Charles River all the way back past Boston University to Mass Ave and then home. We didn't realize how out of the way this route was, but we did it anyway. It couldn't have been a prettier day and we loved how many people were out walking, biking, running, or just hanging out. I felt super special and lucky getting to enjoy a day like that in a city like Boston.

Don't worry, I still heart Kansas City but I'm making more room for Bean Town.

Home Sweet Home

2010-03-14T12:50:00.006-05:00

The longer I am in Boston, the more I'm feeling "at home." I am forever attached to Kansas City, but I do love coming home to my new home.

Eating In

2010-03-14T12:25:00.007-05:00

Friday night Michael and I had his two freshman students from New England Conservatory over for a listening session and dinner. While the three of them listened and discussed styles of playing, I worked on dinner in the kitchen. On the menu was mesculan greens with Ina's fantastic mustard vinaigrette, Giada's rigatoni with vegetable bolognese (I omit the porcini mushrooms as I prefer the overall flavor of the dish without them) and finally, a lemon curd tart. Everything turned out amazingly well except for the tart. I am not sure where I went wrong, but the darn thing did not set and there was too much zest. I will say that the pastry crust turned out perfect. Michael improvised and we enjoyed our stash of Girl Scout cookies with Earl Grey tea all around.

I had a friend over last night and made a really tasty carrot-mushroom-barley stew with celery, onions, s&p, rosemary, and ginger. I know that the rule is not to make something for the first time when you're having company over, but I did it anyway. When Michael and I cook at home, we don't repeat recipes often unless it really knocks our socks off. There are so many great things to eat, why limit ourselves? Anyway, it was a bit of catastrophe in the making, but it turned out really well. We had our stew, a great bottle of wine, bread from High Rise, lemon bars, and watched "Up." What a great movie! I had a great time and welcome more and more and more.

High on High Rise

2010-03-14T12:00:00.006-05:00

High Rise Bread Co. in Cambridge is a happy operation we discovered months ago. You walk in and it's packed with locals. To the right is an open air space where all the magical bread baking happens and to the left are beautiful displays of breads. There are crates of different wines and on the wall are a selective selection of liqueurs and preserves. There are four small tables at the perimeter and in the middle, long tables with benches for communal seating. I ordered a cup of carrot-potato-leek soup and a monterey jack grilled cheese on challah. My sandwich was incredibly light and very tasty. Michael got the pulled pork sandwich with Canadian cheddar, honey mustard, and coleslaw. Every time we go it's a great experience loaded with tons of charm and interesting folks.

Like nothing else

2010-02-15T20:15:00.010-06:00

If you're in the Kansas City area or looking for a new destination: Run, don't walk! and go to Hammerpress in the Crossroads. This establishment is probably nothing like you've ever seen before when it comes to stationary, invitations, promotional posters, calendars, calling cards, etc. Everything is done by hand by a group of people who care. This is one place that I really long for since moving to Boston. Thankfully I've been blessed with the Internet and can purchase online. I can't help sounding like a whiny kid when I say, "But it's not the same!"

Go and enjoy the experience.

dream BIG

2010-02-14T12:46:00.017-06:00

We have been searching for a property to purchase and make our own in the Boston area. For months we've been searching for something that tickles our fancy but alas, we are in New England. Everywhere we look houses are primarily two styles: Victorian or Colonial. Victorian would be very cool if the right kind of molding and plaster work was done well, but we still feel like we're cramped in with little open space and little light.

However, we've stumbled upon a property in Cambridge that has created such an excitement in me I can barely function. We've yet to see it in person but I've behaved like I always do: jumping the gun and picturing myself moved in. *Note to Self: You're setting yourself up for the likely possibility of a huge disappointment. Knowing that, I'm going to continue to dream away at my own risk.......

Pictures: Elle Decor, Metropolitan Home, Red Modern Furniture

I've been waiting for this

2010-02-12T16:59:00.003-06:00

After years of listening to recordings, I finally get to hear Renee Fleming perform with the Boston Symphony Orchestra tonight!

Not to mention Mahler 4 is on the program with her singing the fourth movement....totally a bonus!

Return to New York

2010-02-06T08:49:00.004-06:00

Last Sunday we took the Limo Liner down to New York as the Boston Symphony Orchestra was performing at Carnegie Hall for the third time this year. I have been to Carnegie two other times: the first as an audience member and the second time was the next night as a performer with the Eastman Wind Ensemble. Interestingly enough, the first time (as an audience member) that I went was specifically to hear (my) Michael premiere Michael Daugherty's new clarinet concerto, "Brooklyn Bridge." It was February 2005 and we had been introduced once before but had not yet hit it off.

While I was sitting in the audience last Monday night I remembered that night five years ago, and wondered how many musicians in the BSO have premiered a solo piece at Carnegie. Further, how many BSO members knew that Michael has? Continually he inspires me.

So my second trip this year to NY was pretty good. We had a nice lunch at a quaint restaurant in the Upper East Side, Vio Quadronno and were able to see some friends from Kansas City who now are with the Chicago Symphony. I'm returning to NY again later this month for the Coterie market and wonder if I'll have any time to do more exploring...hope so since each time I go it's getting better.

Best Friends

2010-02-06T08:36:00.002-06:00

Molly Cat and Michael are best friends. They cuddle, play, and search the internet together. Who knew they'd become nearly inseparable? Whenever I'd be away from Little Girl on a trip, I'd miss her and Michael thought it was a little odd. But guess who misses her when we're away one night to New York? It's not just me anymore...

An Expected Surprise

2010-02-06T07:59:00.004-06:00

On Thursday I received the best expected surprise: Mom's Cuisinart food processor came in the mail! I had sent my dad an email asking him to put it aside for me to pick it up in April, but he opted to ship it. YES! I love it, though I haven't used it yet.

When getting ready to move to Boston I debated and debated bringing the Cuisinart but in the end choose not to. I did not realize how many recipes I would want to make (after my move) that would utilize the appliance. My short list of things to make with the processor is my Grandpa's carrot cake. Oh goodness is it good! The long list: the possibilities are endless.

I hate my feet

2010-01-30T20:48:00.005-06:00

I absolutely, positively, most-of-the-time hate my feet! I was born with super narrow feet. A shoe salesman when I was just a toddler recognized my fate. He told my mom that I was going to have a hard time my whole life....boy was he right! ARGH! I want to be able to buy a super cool, trendy pair of booties (that are relatively cheap) from Urban to wear for a season...but they don't fit! I got a pair of Jimmy Choo patent d'Orsays that fit in the beginning, but now the heel is always slipping AND I have three layers of inserts for the ball of my foot. The shoes that fit me the best are my Ugg moccasins (I only wear around the house) and sneakers. Well, I take that back: my Pucci printed silk ballet flats fit perfectly (with an insert no doubt) but those are limited to warm months and particular outfits.

Shoes that come in narrow widths are usually made mostly out of elastic and are too ugly for Grandma, or cost super $$$. I've tried layers of socks, heavy wool socks, heel grips, arch supportive inserts...you name it, I've tried it. If anyone out there has a suggestion, a bit of knowledge from a stone unturned, please share. I'm feeling desperate.

A big hug from Judy

2010-01-23T11:57:00.003-06:00

A couple of weeks ago I received a package from Judy, Michael's mom. I wasn't expecting anything but was thrilled with what she sent me: a pair of earrings that were Michael's Great Grandmother's. I was so overwhelmed by the gesture that I was immediately weepy-eyed and felt a kind of big hug from her. One of my favorite things about jewelry is how it can hold an important sentiment. In fact, I enjoy wearing jewelry that was once someone else's more than I enjoy pieces that I've gotten for myself. Thank you, Judy.

Road trip for Food

2010-01-23T11:37:00.005-06:00

When our TV is on, it's most likely on TLC, HGTV or Food Network. When we had the opportunity to get our hands on a courtesy car (compliments of the BMW dealer) we decided to head south to Attleboro, MA (about a 45 minute drive) to check out a place we saw on Diners Drive Ins and Dives. A little New England town, it was easy to find Morin's Diner. I tried the French Meat Pie which was completely homemade, fresh, and very tasty. The girl who waited on us was super sweet and we were so glad we went. It's great to be able to be (relatively) close to fantastic food!

A great thing about Boston...

2010-01-16T14:28:00.005-06:00

Are the restaurants! Since living in Bean Town I have been loving food more than ever before. There are so many amazing restaurants here that there are times when you feel conflicted. For example, you had a great experience at Picco and want to go back, but then does that mean you're going to miss out on a new, undiscovered experience? I'd say that's a guaranteed yes every time.

We did revisit B&G Oysters last night for the second time with friends. The oysters we started out with were great and for the second time, I'm found that I prefer the flavors of the local compared to the West Coast varieties. We shared a lovely fennel salad with arugula, blood orange, and pine nut vinaigrette along with a plate of fried calamari with a spicy aioli. I opted to repeat the entree I had my first time because it was amazing: Lobster Coussoulet prepared with spinach, black truffles, and chestnuts atop a small bed of beans that resemble the look of river stones. Again, it was amazing! We finished with a shared ginger cake with a bourbon sauce and then a puff pastry atop a marscapone custard with figs. You too can find the flavors of heaven on a table in the South End.

Escape from Boston Part 2

2010-01-16T11:46:00.007-06:00

Day 2

On day two we started out with breakfast at the hotel and then an espresso at Zibetto. It's a hole in the wall steps away from Carnegie Hall and very nice. It's a long, small space with a white marble bar and a barista. No frills except the espresso and coffee drinks are quality. I think we stopped by there twice during our trip and once at another hole in the wall, Fika.

Arriving at the MoMA, we were overwhelmed by all of the people there, so we look through the bookshop and decided to return the next day. Walking up and down Fifth Avenue was okay because we were still fighting strong, cold winds. We hung out at the Apple store for a bit to warm up as we awaited Bergdorf Goodman to open. The windows at Bergdorf's were a fantasy with the most amazing pieces from amazing designers. Exploring the store was fun and the people working there were pleasant compared to other places we'd been.

That evening we went to Le Poisson Rouge in The Village to hear Don Byron. Afterwards we made a late supper at Casa Mono, a Mario Batali tapas restaurant near NYU. We squeezed into a tiny corner to enjoy fun, adventuresome flavors.

Day 3

Our final day in New York, we woke up wanting leave for home in the afternoon rather than the evening. We made our way through the MoMA and saw a very cool Tim Burton exhibit. The downside: way, way, way too many people! There was so many sketches, models, short films, props, and illustrations to see. Somehow we were able to enjoy a few things though we were all packed in there like sardines.

We visited Vandoren so Michael could get some reeds and then made our way to Gray's Papaya. Anthony Bourdain seems to frequent this hot dog and papaya drink joint often, so we wanted to try it too. Michael got the Recession Special: two dogs, a large drink for $4.45. The dogs come with sauerkraut, but as I'm not a fan and I still wanted to have an authentic experience, I went out of my comfort zone and got it with onions. Like the corned beef sandwich, I paid for my adventuresome spirit the rest of the day with a sour stomach.

New York is full of experiences unique to it, but I was really ready to get home....to Boston. I am curious to know what exactly people think about when they say, "I love New York" or "I'm so jealous that you get to go to New York, I love it!" With the overwhelming crowds of people, filthy subway stations that reek of urine, extreme prices as soon as you leave your door (which is already priced sky high)...I guess it's fine by me, but I have no desire to go back. Did I mention I'm going there twice in February?

I heart Kansas.

Escape from Boston

2010-01-14T20:16:00.005-06:00

For Christmas Michael gave me an experience to remember: a day at the Mandarin Oriental Spa. Lunch, relaxation, and two hours of treatments. It was a fantastic way to spend New Years Eve Day followed by a homemade dinner of porcini encrusted filets with all the extras.

DAY 1

We spent three days in New York and we had experience after experience. We arrived in the city, dropped our bags and headed to Katz's Deli. Everyone had so much attitude, was yelling, and it seemed a little grungy and I opted to try the corned beef sandwich (with a Pepsi). Ever since Michael read Anthony Bourdain's book, No Reservations, I've made a mindful effort to try new things, even if it's a little outside of my comfort zone. The sandwich was good, but I paid for it the rest of the day with a gurgling and uncomfortable tummy ache.

We explored vintage shops and unique little stores from Katz's, Chinatown, to SoHo, to the West Village. I was warned how expensive vintage is in New York, but I was still a wee bit surprised that a no name sweater was $350. It was fun to look and it was free.

Boy, was it cold! The wind was blowing so hard my skin really got whipped and I had to use oil in addition to a cream moisturizer to heal my face when we got home. However, finally being able to experience the Prada store in SoHo on day 1 was great! I knew it was amazing, but it was even better than that! Everything else was pretty blah...nothing more than what I expected but glad I got to go around and poke my head in here and there.

We walked all the way to the West Village to stand in line at the Magnolia Bakery at 401 Bleecker Street. I am glad I had the experience of having a cupcake from their bakery and got to stand in line with everyone else, but really...did I miss something? During this cupcake craze that's been on peak trend, I've made the effort to try as many cupcakes as I can find...mostly in Kansas City. Baby Cakes in the River Market was good, Cupcake a la Mode in West Plaza does great things with their icing flavors, and Sweet (here in Boston) has a super duper butterscotch cupcake and a heck of a gingerbread cupcake.

Magnolia was fine (maybe I was there on a dud of a day) but I really think the best cupcake I've had came from the Roasterie Cafe in Brookside.

*Note to self: I still need to try Sprinkles in L.A.

We relaxed and eventually thawed out at our hotel, Hudson (which was pretty swanky) and then had dinner at Mesa Grill, Bobby Flay's restaurant. The flavors were quite interesting and mysterious. All the spice and kick was there, but somehow it was completely balanced, tolerable, and never became overwhelming.

We ended our first night with meeting friends at the bar at Hudson for drinks to do some catching up...miss them.

Decade

2009-12-19T09:38:00.002-06:00

2009 is coming to a close and I recently heard that somewhere in the NY Times Magazine, it's claimed that this past decade has been a terrible one. Thinking back over the years it's been a tough one but it's been endured. I remember in school thinking about the people who lived through other tough years and wondered how they did it...or, how lucky am I not to have lived then? I may not always realize the gravity of our situations as we live in the moment, but hindsight is 20/20. In the past ten years I've had a lot of good times: being in the marching band at SMS, getting my driver's license and becoming more independent, fun concerts and school activities with friends, great vacations with my family, going off to college and really gaining independence, traveling with my horn and making new friends, becoming closer with my grandparents, graduating college, getting some really special time with Mom, meeting Michael, redirecting my career goals, becoming financially independent, moving across the country to a new city, spending my first Christmas away from home.

These past ten years I've gotten to know myself and I'm pretty happy. I've learned what awareness is and the hard work that goes along with it. In another ten years I'll know even more about myself...until then, I'll do my best to live presently.

Tourists

2009-10-24T20:37:00.002-05:00

I can't decide how I feel about living in a city with tourists. On one hand, it's neat to be living in a city that people from all corners come to visit. On the other hand, I wonder how authentic of an experience I'm getting living here. Today was pretty rainy and after rehearsal, we headed up to the North End. The North End is a very old neighborhood of Boston and full of Italians. Walking around narrow little streets is like being in Europe. However, there are tourists everywhere. We ate lunch at a little sandwich place that's only open for lunch. I am not a sandwich person, but Michael assured me that I'd like it. I had roasted Portobello sandwich with spinach, roasted bell pepper, fresh mozzarella, basil, and basil mayonnaise. Yum! We sat at the window, watched the rain, and watched all the tourists look in at us. None of them stopped in to have an amazing lunch. I don't know where Michael found out about this place, but I need more hidden gems for the locals...since I am one now.

Adjusting

2009-10-20T19:00:00.003-05:00

Adjusting to a new city such as Boston, has been trickier than I thought. I thought living with someone would be the hard part, but no. Moving to a brand new place that has a different culture than I already know, starting a new job, and having no friends is what's tough. I can feel inspired (sometimes) to be outgoing and social, but since I've been here I feel lost. It's totally bizarre that I did my best to prepare myself (in as many ways as I could think and research) for the turmoils of living with a boyfriend---something I'd never ever done before. Turns out, that's all gravy compared to everything else. What to do, what to do...

Moving again..

2009-10-12T15:15:00.003-05:00

Oh my gosh. So after packing up my apartment in KC and moving to Boston, I moved again. We moved into a bigger place up a floor and I'm finally unpacking everything I brought with me. When I packed up my place in KC, I downsized a lot. Now that I'm unpacking my things here, I'm having to downsize by repacking some items and making new donation piles. This has been a slow, tiring, and frustrating process. I remind myself to admire what I've accomplished, and that once it's all done, I will be happy, comfortable, and able to focus on more stimulating things!

I got to go back to Kansas City Wednesday evening and felt really happy to visit. Thursday my new company had a trunk show at Halls and I got to work it and the big bonus was seeing all of my friends. Friday, my friend Angie got married and months and months ago she asked if I would coordinate her vendors the day of her wedding. I set up the ceremony and reception sites and compared to things I have to do for my job, this was a breeze of a juggling act! I really enjoyed doing it for her and for Gary, and then was able to enjoy the dinner. I was lucky enough to stay with a different friend each night which was prime opportunity for catching up. The trip was go, go, go!, a lot of fun, but very tiring. I'm glad to be back with my 2M's: Michael and Molly.

Notice: I have moved.

2009-09-07T13:31:00.002-05:00

I did it! I made the move to Boston and I start my new job tomorrow. I've been getting some rest squeezed in here and there, but mostly it's: go, go, go!

Our driver from Kansas City to Boston was full of adventure, starting at the very beginning! Our rental mini van freaked me out by it's lack of cargo room. The third row of seats folded flat into the floor, but not the second. Michael took them out and strapped them to the roof and we squeezed in all of my belongings. I guess it's good to know that I was able to downsize so much, but even still, I felt kind of embarrassed to have so much stuff! Once we got close to our cruising speed, we started to hear this loud buzzing hum. All it was, was the wind hitting the chairs on the roof and I knew I'd be able to block out a sound like that, but Michael wasn't so sure about his ability to do the same. It did it the whole way.

We drove to Cincinnati to visit our fun friends, Ben and Liz. They matched us up years ago and it was a treat to visit them at their new home and have a break. We ate lots of great food, caught up quite a bit, and went canoeing! I hadn't been canoeing since my float trip days with my church and I had such a great time. We left them on Friday morning and drove from 9am to midnight and then unloaded the car for an hour or so that night. We were totally exhausted.

Yesterday morning, Michael and I went for a long walk. We started by heading north on Mass Ave, past Commonwealth, to the Charles River. We walked east along the Charles River, headed southwest through Beacon Hill, the Boston Commons, west down Commonwealth, and finally south on Mass Ave to home. The walk along the river was beautifully picturesque. There are groups of people who practice yoga on little docks that stretch out onto the water (I must find out when I can attend one!). We passed two elderly gentlemen who were walking together and one held a small radio that was playing music from their hey day. In contrast, later that day we saw two guys riding with a boom box strapped to one of their bikes, blasting some thing.

Yesterday evening, Molly got her first pedicure. She has her hind claws and I found claw covers so she won't risk snagging the fabric on Michael's furniture. Holding her down was Michael's job and I had to clip her nails and then attach the nails with glue. It reminded me of the days when I tried to wear artificial nails, and even for kitties, the glue still reeks. Molly faugh and faugh, but Michael and I sang to her and now she's back to normal but with bright pink toenails.

Settling in is pretty much what I expected: tricky and exhausting. I am not looking forward to doing another move October 3, but we'll be in a bigger place and I'll get to unpack all of my stuff. I start my new job tomorrow and I feel like it's the first day of school all over again.

Last day of August...Last Monday in KC

2009-08-31T09:24:00.002-05:00

I'm moving. I am starting a new job in Boston and am excited, anxious, and a little nervous. I will be working for a Boston-based women's clothing line, Sara Campbell. My position is officially titled, "Customer Service Rep., Sales and Merchandise Buying Assistant." From what I understand this title is a big umbrella with a lot of different responsibilities. I like that there will be variety of things for me to take care of. I start my new job a week from tomorrow and am hoping by next Tuesday rolls around, I will have had some quality rest.

My junior year at Eastman I had my first apartment and since then I've been accumulating and accumulating. This moved has provided a perfect opportunity to "purge!" I have sold all of my furnishings on Craigslist and pretty easily at that. Last Wednesday a couple picked up my bed and since then I've been on the floor or occasionally on my wee sofa. Sofa's gone now and all I have is my desk, two table lamps. The corner of my living room that is the home base for packed boxes isn't as huge a pile as I had though. Over the past three weeks, I have had anxiety fits that I won't be able to fit my last belongings in the van, but I think I'll be okay. Either way, Michael assures me over and over that they will get to Boston some way or another.

Molly Cat is doing pretty well. She follows me around a little more than average, and she's also taken to a specific box that I've turned on it's side for her to have as a little den. She may prefer to ride to Boston in that than her carrier!

I knew my friends from work were really special, but I didn't ever realize that they might feel the same about me. Two going away parties were given outside of work and were so much fun. My Helga gave one at her amazing apartment up the street from mine. I LOVE her place. It's the perfect balance of modern and comfort. So much is clean and white and then she has special accents like her Bertoia chairs. I think she has 13 white side chairs, two diamond and a bird chair upholstered in dark blue (with ottomans). Also, she has at least two Saarinen side tables. If it hadn't been for Michael and his brother's uber successful furniture store, I would not have a clue what these pieces were and how special they are.

Saturday I was treated to my first pedicure in I don't know how long! I met Jennifer and Angie at a really nice West Plaza place and Jennifer handed out coffee cups and surprise: champange! To be pampered: how nice! Later that night there was another party at Jim's and it was fun to see so many fun people there with great food and drinks. I hope that I get to see the pictures that everyone else took someday. Wow is all I can say. I felt really, really special.

I plan to finish up the packing today with breaks for lunch and dinner with friends. Michael arrives tomorrow to help finalize anything I've overlooked and then we hit the road for a new adventure.

Rain

2009-07-30T08:42:00.002-05:00

Since I arrived here in the Berkshires last Saturday, the rain has become increasingly frequent. The basement's flooded a every time, some of the driveway washed away, the back yard has been flooded in some areas, some portions of roads are flooded or have been washed away, there is loose gravel, etc. etc.

I went into Boston yesterday and had lunch with a friend; fun change of scenery. Also wanted to see Emily, but she was busy with family things. It's nice that the more I visit the city the more familiar and comfortable I've become with it. When I went the first few times I felt somewhat intimidated and hermit-ish but now I'm feeling better.

Had dinner with some new friends last night and the night before I made quite a feast of bbq chicken and roasted parmesan veggies. Thanks to Giada!

Supposedly the rain should hold off for the rest of the day (though it's incredibly humid and damp) and I think I'll walk the couple miles to West Stockbridge to find some stationary to do some writing.

My Great Vacation

2009-07-27T21:22:00.002-05:00

I am on day three of my "Great Vacation." Spending time out here in the Berkshires is quiet, relaxing, beautiful: tranquil. It wouldn't be great at all if I wasn't spending the time with Michael. He is in the middle of his first Tanglewood season with the Boston Symphony and he just got tenure so things couldn't be going any better.

The weather's been off and on. It's rained at least one time every day that I've been here. Today we opted to take the Volvo out for lunch. Clear skies, no wind, lovely. We made it to Stockbridge (so touristy, blah) and ate, and then Michael started getting nervous about the weather so we high tailed it back to the car. Trying to decide if we should explore the Berkshire Botanical Gardens, a decision was made for us as it started to rain! Oh boy! Was I able to stay calm as Michael got really worked up over the rain on his 45 year old vintage car. Being stuck behind very slow drivers added to the tension and the stress. When we finally made it back to the house, we raced to dry off the car as throughly as possible. I don't know how long we were at it for, but it entailed Michael under the car drying, and me using my hair dryer to get the water out from between the body and chrome trim. It's a beautiful car and quite enjoyable, but being that it currently has little to no rust, keeping it out of non-perfect weather is of utmost importance. I've never experience such quick and drastic changes in weather as I have in the past three days.

I wonder what adventures tomorrow will bring!

I cannot commit

2009-07-05T13:40:00.002-05:00

I just cannot commit to blogging. When I decided to do this a while back, I thought it was something I could stick with; guess not.

Last weekend I traveled to Boston to see my man. Oh boy was it so good to see him! Though he had been here for a about five days earlier, it was great to get out of KC and back East. It had been hotter and more humid here than I care to remember and in Boston, it was a cool and breezy in the high 70s, low 80s. NICE! We explored some outer communities, had lunch at Symphony Sushi, and walked and walked around the city. We had a fantastic meal at Pico's on Tremont and then I was determined to trek it to the other side of the city for a piece of original Boston Cream Pie at the Parker House Hotel.

On Sunday we drove out to the Berkshires and got settled into Michael's summer house in Richmond. Wow! I had seen it in March when we first checked it out, but in the fullness of summer, it's so much better than I remembered. The house is on a few acres and is isolated between sunny meadows and green forests. I hate to say that it's perfect (because nothing ever is) but it's perfect. So quiet, lots of different birds singing, and totally serene. There's even a massive claw foot tub to soak in, and the windows in the bathroom run low enough that you can see out into the back.

On Monday before I left, we explored the Tanglewood grounds. I had no idea they are as expansive as they are! There are so many paths and trails to take around the area with maps posted every so often showing, "You Are Here" so you can find your way around. Rolling hills, open spaces, and areas of forest and wild flowers. Why did I have to leave? To come home to take care of Molly Cat and work my job. I miss having summers free.

Out of hibernation

2009-04-19T13:08:00.002-05:00

Spring is a Tease. After weeks and weeks of feeling like Spring had finally arrived, it'd retreat and winter would wave, "hello." I finally feel Spring now because I feel like I can venture outside of my four walls and have adventures. This is the first weekend in many, many weeks that I've had all to myself. I believe since February, I've either had guests visiting, or I've been out visiting. It has been nice to relax and have my own time. Friday night some of us celebrated Lisa's birthday at JJ's and it was so much fun, though I was the youngest and the only non-divorcee.

Yesterday I found myself exploring my neighborhood. I went by Halls Crown Center for the first time in eons and I couldn't believe how great the store looked. Really, really, really good and terrific merchandise too! I'm really glad that store is getting a much needed, and overdue facelift. Though I didn't find shoes to wear to the wedding here in a few weeks, I did find so many other things that I did like. After that I wondered the floors of River Market Antiques. I don't think I've ever gone alone; it's always been Michael's and my place to scavenge. I did find a table for my massive, shedding, and sunburnt fern. It's just perfect and now the plant is further away from direct sunlight and should get even bigger and greener! Going to the gym was great, taking my time in the shower, and then meeting Meredith at Aixois in Crestwood.

We ended up closing the place! I don't know how many times that's happened for me, but everything was fun. I even tried escargots without blinking an eye and they were great! The staff and owners seemed to take to us so we even had a glass of a port with a chocolate, on the house. I swear, sitting and eating at the bar of a nice restaurant is a good way to go. Every time I do it, I usually get something extra as well as meeting someone new. Thanks to my friend Sloan who introduced me to that style of dining. It's great.

Together in Boston, Alone in Kansas City

2009-04-08T21:29:00.002-05:00

After an incredibly busy and stressful week at work, I took off for Boston Friday evening and arrived just after midnight. After what's coming up on four years, I still get some butterflies when I see Michael for the first time.

Saturday we ventured out a little bit to a Boston neighborhood, Jamaica Plain, or JP. It didn't do much to thrill me. I felt like the houses and store fronts were smushed together and then shoved all the way to the street curb with a narrow sidewalk as a divider. Not my ideal neighborhood, not to mention every single house was four plain walls, no yard to speak of, and covered with monotonous vinyl siding. On a positive note, we had a pleasant lunch at City Feed and parked in front of the Mother Ship JP Licks. It was too cold and windy that we weren't in the mood for non fat (non calorie?) delicious ice cream.

I did get to see more of Brookline and Michael even spotted a house he thought was neat and then we ended up (of course!) at Trader Joe's. My favorite thing that I spotted was a massive display of matzos and overhead it said, "Don't Pass Over This Deal!" Hahahahaha! We hung out for the rest of the evening, had a nice dinner, a little wine, and watched Slumdog.

On Sunday we got up and had to head out to Cambridge to hit the antique market because Michael found a pair of Eames chairs for the dining table. They were perfect! Since neither one of Michael's cars are, "practical" in the practical sense of the word (both are two-seater sports cars) one chair went in the back, and the other went upside down on my lap with the window open for one of the legs to stick out!

It was a beautiful day and we spent hours walking outside and looking for deals. I finally hit the jackpot at second hand shop. I found three great dresses: one Prada sport, one Miu Miu, and the other was a no name, but it was a sweet trench dress with fun yellow trimmings. Bad thing: not what I was looking for to wear to a wedding and no extra money for great deals, no matter how great they are. :-( Being poor is not easy. We did find things to wear to the wedding and we both got great deals, so we did do well.

I had such a hard time adjusting to Michael living in Boston and visiting Boston and over my past few visits, I've found my rhythm. I feel like I've found some sort of niche which makes every time I leave so much harder, and harder on both of us. Totally sucks. Thank goodness for a great small book, "The Four Agreements" which is a great guide to help me figure out what's best for me. I wonder how much longer I'll be alone in Kansas City?

Dogs

2009-03-29T09:44:00.003-05:00

So I'm housesitting/making-sure-my-friend's-16 year-old-stays-out-of-trouble for the next few days and they have a cat and two dogs. A-Jax, is a great looking, very sturdy, black American lab, and is top dog. While Boots, looks like some breed of herding dog with golden-black, burnt colored, fur. Clearly Boots was abused in his previous life before my friend's family took him in from the wild. It took one evening for him to warm up to me, but he did and now we're friends (and my favorite).

Yesterday and this morning, I've been woken up and begin to hear their whines. They want out to run the large lot that the house sits on. They get so excited when they see me and start hopping up and down and let out a few barks. They scurry out the door and then run, and run, and run around the property. They do come back to the back door and sit to see if I'm there and then they take off running again. Yesterday I interpreted that as wanting in, but they'd only run in the house for a second and then beg to be let out again. So today, I'm more savvy to their routine. They now are waiting at the back door for longer periods; most likely because their hungry. They can't eat till the boy is up and moving because he feeds them.

It's fun having the animals. I just wish that it hadn't snowed and it was nice weather so I could have them go on a walk with me.

Saturday morning

2009-03-28T09:28:00.002-05:00

March has been a month of visiting friends. Leslie came the second weekend at the last minute and it was very enjoyable. Unexpected for me, she brought me Trader Joe's Triple Ginger Snaps! They are my favorite and it was such a surprise! We got some good food and tea and kept ourselves so busy that I got a stomach ache. The weather was beautiful that weekend that we walked down to the River Market Saturday morning and really indulged in the produce. We packed lunches and then headed for the Nelson to eat outside on the lawn and then went through the Asian exhibits. We stopped by the library and then hung out in cosmetics at Halls for a little bit. The weekend was fun and I felt lucky that she could come in on a Friday evening and then leave Monday morning while I was on my way to work. We got all the time we wanted!

Last weekend Emily came to visit! We also had some good food (and drinks!). We were all over Kansas City on Saturday. We went shopping on the Plaza (a totally gorgeous, gorgeous day) so she could see our massive GapBody, hit Standard Style, J.Crew, and Anthropologie. We had lunch at Mixx (I took Leslie for dinner there her first night) and then headed out to meet up with Gina at Nordstrom where she was working a Bobbi Brown event. We looked for gowns for Michael's brother's wedding and I found nothing! But then, we got some jewelry making supplies together and Emily broke out her tools and we made some fun necklaces while watching the newly released, "Twilight."

On the subject of the Twilight series, I was very resistant to picking up those books at all since it's the rage! I was encouraged to read the first book and I hesitantly did, but I totally got into it and I just finished the fourth book at the beginning of this week. What great stories! The movie, oh boy...good in some ways, unsatisfying in more. I'm glad that I read the book first or I think I would have been discourage to after seeing the flick.

Yesterday evening I came to stay at a friend's home to keep an eye on it and her son. So far, so good. The bonus are the two dogs and friendly cat. Well, there are more bonuses than that: being in a house out of downtown, on a massive lot with a green yard and lots of trees. I just hope this weather becomes more pleasant so I can take the dogs out for walks. The only drawback to this place is that I'm having a hard time finding anything! Light switches are very hard to find here for the correct lights. Oh my gosh, sounds easy right, but it's not. This morning I couldn't find any tea or coffee, but I could easily find the kettle and the coffee pot. Oy!

It's been a while

2009-03-10T19:48:00.003-05:00

It's been a while since I've posted. When I first got the idea to blog, I thought I would be writing often...guess not so much! Keeping a private, personal journal and keeping a blog--it's a tug of war as to where to write and what to write. Eh? *shrugs*

So I was in Boston two weeks ago and had a marvelous time! I got in very late Friday night after work and on Saturday morning, Michael and I headed off for The Berkshires. The Boston Symphony has an eight week summer season at Tanglewood and he gets a nice housing allowance to rent a place. We went to check out the house he found in Richmond, MA, just a stone's throw from the New York state line. The house couldn't have been closer to perfection. It's about 150 years old, was a "safe house" for the mining operation (it shut down during The (first) Depression) and was recently renovated. Saying again: the house is perfect!

About ten to fifteen minutes down the road is Great Barrington, home to McTiegue and McClelland, my favorite jewelry line that we carry at Halls. When Michael and I walked in, Walter greeted me with a big, "hello", coming out from behind the counter to give me a hug and to be introduced to Michael. After we had our greetings, he turned and said, "Erin, Michael; meet Jill and Yo Yo." We turned to shake hands and there was Yo Yo Ma and his wife. What are the chances of running into them in this tiny, out-of-the-way town in Massachusetts? We visited for a bit and then we looked and looked. Or maybe I just looked and looked. We quickly ran past the time we had allotted and then had to race the two hours back to Boston so Michael could play his concert!

Sunday morning we got up, got a Zip Car (what an awesome service) and went to look about a chair. Michael found a vintage rosewood Eames lounge and we drove the five to ten minutes to take a look. We decided on it and towed it back home, then had brunch at Toro (my favorite!). It had started snowing during the night and walking to the Back Bay wasn't too fun in loafers. We stayed in the rest of the day cleaning up the chair and it ended up incredibly beautiful. Our time together came to a close too quickly. A massive snow storm was on it's way to Boston and I was hoping to get snowed in, but I made it out. :-(

Oh my gosh it's so hard being apart!

"Auntie Erin"

2009-01-25T10:26:00.002-06:00

I'm not married and I'm an only child but I love being called, "Auntie." My dear friends Gina and Jared have the most wonderful little boy, Addison and they call me "Auntie Erin." I love, love, love it! And I love, love, love Addison. He turned six weeks old on Friday. It's been a journey to see mommy's entire pregnancy, the labor, Addison as a newborn, and now at six weeks. It's absolutely incredible. He is a great little person with a personality that shows itself more and more each time I see him.

I feel so much pride and joy for my friends and their son. What a compliment (and a brief moment of selfish pride) when I was holding Addison and Gina commented, "So natural." I feel no rush for babies of my own. Mom wrote this in my journal on my first birthday:

"11-18-1984

Happy 1st Birthday Erin. Read all about your day in you baby book.

Dear Erin, I can't believe you are one year old. Where has the time gone? I re-lived every moment today of this day a year ago. You will never know this feeling, an indescribable one, until you, yourself, become a mother. Don't rush the experience, but don't miss it. I love you very much. Mother"

Sick

2009-01-17T15:35:00.002-06:00

The last night I was in Miami I started feeling pretty bad. My glands in my throat felt enlarged and very sensitive and I started to develop a sore throat. Thursday morning when I got up I felt much, much worse. I slept the whole flight back to Boston, the rest of the day and then all of Friday. I came back to Kansas City on Sunday feeling somewhat better, but not fully recovered. Monday at work I felt worse, but Tuesday I felt great! Not perfectly normal, but very, very good. I went home, did my laundry, a little cleaning and then BAM! Wednesday morning I woke up feeling 100% worse AGAIN! Thursday morning I felt worse than I did the previous day. I went to the doctor, explained what had been happening, that as time went on, I was gaining more bad symptoms and she was a little confused why it was my eight day not feeling well and I was feeling worse. She put me on a "Z Pack" of antibiotics, and still, I wasn't feeling any better. Now here it is, my tenth day and I'm feeling better.

Holy cow! How long does something like this need to last? It's been so frustrating, and I'm so proud of myself for not missing a day of work. I did leave an hour early Thursday, but I haven't missed one day. The only time I've ever had perfect attendance was in kindergarten. I'm aiming for perfect attendance again, but there's no summer break to relieve me from my goal.

Trip Recap

2009-01-13T22:07:00.003-06:00

My trip to Boston was nice. Boy oh boy do Michael and I love eating at Toro in the South End. He gets to go way more often than me (obviously) but both meals I've had there are nearly unbelievable. It's not complicated or weird, simply very, very good food. There's always just enough and I find myself announcing how I could just keep eating (what ever's on my plate) forever. Just thinking about it tonight is making me melt.

Our trip to Miami was very nice. We had a direct flight from Boston though the people on the plane were a little strange. I tried to snooze. We had Peruvian food which was tasty, then drove on to our hotel: the Trump International Beach Resort. Let me tell you, it was very, very nice, but by the middle to end of our trip, we came to realize that we would have preferred something a little more laid back and more low key. We've always known that's our preference, but it's good to try something different.

Our first night we spent wondering South Beach. Being in Miami/South Beach was like nowhere I'd ever been. I really felt like I was in a totally different country. We hardly heard anyone speaking English for one. Most were speaking Spanish or French. The Art Deco architecture was great to see and the people all around us were flexing their spending power. I lost track of all of the Bentleys, Rolls Royce, and Maseratis we saw cruising (to name a few). Thank goodness I had my fantastic, "Dressy New Look" Prada or else I would have been outcasted. I was surprised by the overwhelming domination of Prada-carrying ladies at our hotel.

We met Michael's great aunt in Palm Beach and had a lovely lunch and better visit. I really enjoyed her company, her stories, her strong opinions, and her eagerness to listen to what we had to say. I wish I could see her more often. We spent the evening wondering around the shops at Bal Harbour. The stores were great, but I really hit it off with a lady who works at the Marc Jacobs store. Michael was lucky enough to find a souvenir there too!

On Wednesday we layed out on the beach for hours. Every day we were there the weather was a perfect 80 degrees, sunny, and just enough humidity to feel refreshing. I spent time combing around near the waves, looking for perfect shells. I could have layed around the beach and played in the waves for days and days. Strange that I was born and raised in a completely land locked state.

Later in the evening I started feeling crummy and it only got worse. When we got back to Boston on Thursday I slept and slept. On Friday I slept and slept and slept. I came down with a terrible sore throat and my head hurt and felt too sensitive at the same time. I was just glad that I got sick on time that I had allocated away from work, and that I was conveniently around someone who would take such good care of me. When I started to feel better, we spent time either playing rummy or watching movies.

Michael and I had a great time together. I felt that I had been away for so much longer than eight days, but it was only eight. I still have my sore throat but felt much better today than I did yesterday.

Back in Boston

2009-01-04T16:08:00.004-06:00

I'm back in Boston and tomorrow I'm off to Miami to do some serious relaxing.

Last week, Michael was able to come to Kansas City to spend some time with me, though I had to work. Work's been great; exhausting, but really, really great. Now that the climax of retail season is over, I'm hoping that when I return in just over a week (yay for a vacation), I'll have some time to do some more organizing, and making things more, "my own."

I'm not sure what it is about every time I visit Boston, but I never feel like I have a niche that I can settle into and get comfortable. Perhaps if Molly was here, I had some of my things, and my own space to keep them, that might make a difference. I never belonged to Rochester except for an education, but I made it, "my own." I wonder what I'm really missing. It's strange to feel like I'm, "waiting-for-the-next-thing-to-happen." For instance, sitting around and wondering what I should do with myself, or what Michael and I will be off to do next. Evidently, I've unconsciously owned the role of guest/visitor. That's really not what I want to be. So now I ask, how do I change? Barack, will you please lend me some advice?

Molly Cat, my favorite cat.

2008-12-18T21:48:00.002-06:00

For those of you who don't have the pleasure of knowing Molly, you're really missing out on a simply delightful kitty. My dad and I adopted her Christmas, 2004 for my mom and she named her. So already knowing that, you've got to know this cat is very special, especially to me. She has many traits of a dog. She always greets me at the door when I get home from work, rubs herself all over me, meows chit chat, loves to play, licks a ton, and is extremely social with strangers. Conveniently for me, she can eat on her own schedule, use the litter box when needed, and can be left alone without a second thought.

Wednesday morning when I woke up, Molly was lying next to me as usual, but she had a bit of blood on her mouth and her chin and jaw was extremely swollen. She would try to yawn, open her mouth a few centimeters, then give up and close. The pain! When I was telling my grandmother about this, she commented, "Bless her heart!" Only my grandma would say that about her grand kitty. When I could see into Molly's mouth, her gums at her teeth were inflamed and it appeared that's where the blood was coming from. I was able to leave work in the morning to take her to the vet and turns out she has gingivitis. I have her on antibiotics and thankfully she's improved or else we could have had a much more serious issue on our hands/paws. She has a dental appointment for Tuesday and I really hope that they don't find anything major or untreatable.

Since the visit to the vet yesterday and medication, Molly has her spunky spirit back which is a relief. "Molly Cat" is a treat for me, my friends, and strangers alike. I can't imagine being without her. Every trip I take when I'm away from her, I tell whoever I'm with how much I miss her. She's the best, and so was my first cat, Annie.

Weekend Getaway!

2008-12-16T10:16:00.002-06:00

I was lucky enough to be invited to spend the weekend in Chicago with Leslie! A visit was long overdue, but we made up for it by having a splendid time together. I can't even go into all the details of how I was a spoiled guest. We talked and talked and talked over tea, meals, walks, and in bed; like two girls having a sleep over! It was the best. Too bad Dario wasn't there to enjoy the fun, but all the better that we got some precious girl time.

We rode the train into downtown and Leslie showed me the Marshall Field's windows. I wish Halls, or someplace in Kansas City would create old fashioned holiday windows. Hopefully someone does and I'm just not savvy to it. We wondered in and out of stores and then met her parents (who I absolutely adore and always look forward to seeing) for a very nice Italian dinner in the 900 Michigan Ave. building.

We walked around Lincoln Square, right near Leslie's neighborhood and explored interesting local shops. The weather was "mild" while I was there which made it so great for walking outdoors. Low 30's, but that feels so much better compared to the 10 degrees it is in Kansas City right now. She made the best breakfasts for me. Saturday morning it was pancakes (from scratch) with fried plantains with yogurt. Sunday morning were old fashioned muffins (also made from scratch) along with the best French Pressed coffee I've had. I don't know what she's doing differently than I do, but her's is always so much better than mine. It could be the bean grinder, so perhaps I should look into getting a better quality one. I highly doubt it's the Starbucks beans compared to my Kansas City Roasterie beans. I also doubt it's my runt sized French Press. Anyone have any ideas?

We dreamed about living more conveniently to each other and creating festive meals for house packed family and friends. Oh maybe someday we'll only live minutes away from each other again. Until then, I'm glad it's an easy Southwest flight up to Chicago.

Priorities

2008-12-10T21:39:00.004-06:00

Last night when I got home from work, there was a man sitting on my front step mumbling something to me. He most likely was homeless and it was so cold last night. The wind was blowing hard, it had been snowing, and I was making a beeline to get inside. I continued thinking about him; how cold and miserable it was outside. I knew that if I gave him something to eat, he could come back, even harass me. I risked it anyway. I put in a sack, almonds, my last two Honey Crisp apples (my favorite!), a hunk of cheese, crackers, and two beers. I got to the front door, he was there still but now there was another person with him. I opened the door really fast and put the bag between them and went upstairs. I got to thinking about people who are looking for their next meal, warm bed, where they're going to go to the bathroom, etc. All that's been on my mind for the past few weeks is a Miu Miu handbag and how I need to practice my saving discipline. It's such a stupid, frivolous thing to want. But silly me, I still want it. Think: perspective.

On the side of the road

2008-12-06T16:00:00.004-06:00

I can only think of one person I've ever shared this with, so thought it'd be a good thought to blog. Whenever I'm driving and I see really personal item along the side of the road, it bothers me, and my mind starts to make up stories about it. I remember in Rochester there was a certain part of the inner loop that I saw a gray stuffed animal on the shoulder. I felt so sad every time I saw it because in my mind, I thought about the child who it belonged to and who was without it now. I think about that when I see shoes too. Usually, one shoe is on the side of the road and I wonder how could a person loose one shoe on the side of the highway and still have their other. Sometimes you see a pair of shoes tied together and then hanging on some city wire, high above the street. Who did that to the owner of the shoes? They're barefoot now! That was not nice. If someone did that to me I'd be totally pissed. When I was driving home from the Briarcliff today, on 169 South, there was a baby play gym on the shoulder. Not upside down or on it's side, but sitting up right as though someone actually placed it there. I can't imagine. It's such a strange thing to see and curiously, some baby or parent is without it. Do they even know?

Michael's visit

2008-11-11T19:02:00.002-06:00

Last Wednesday Michael was finally able to come visit me in Kansas City. It was great to see him, and to have him here for five and a half days. We had some bad and good meals, did a little treasure hunting, got a fish, saw a movie, had a party, and relaxed too.

Bad meal: Thomas on 39th Street. We'd been there once before for small plates and some really good Fat Cat pinot noir. This time: YUCK! Plus, the guy that plays piano at Bull Dog (who totally stinks) was playing there that night.

Good meal: Bluestem on Westport Road. We went for Sunday brunch and it was so deliciously yummy. Michael had the eggs benedict and I had a feta, butternut squash, mushroom omelet.

Michael suggested we hit up Half of Half on a Saturday afternoon which I thought would totally be a nightmare. I dragged my feet and told him I was leaving my purse in the car. I had barely been looking through a rack when I pulled out a brand new dark blue AKRIS punto jacket for $20! MAJOR SCORE! Went back for my bag and bought it! YES!!!

After 1/2 of 1/2 we went to PetSmart so I could get my new beta fish, Rocky. I've been wanting a fish for a very long time and I finally figured out a way to have one and not let Molly Cat get naughty with it. He's red and I printed out a little living space to put behind his jar. There's a fish lamp, Eames LCW pony chair, and an artichoke lamp.

We went to see Bill Maher's new movie, "Religulous" at the Screenland on Armour up north. It was very interesting, and revisited a lot of questions that have come to mind before. I recommend it.

Sunday after our meal at Bluestem, it was nap time. We watched "A Mighty Wind" and I think I should watch it again. I wasn't laughing very much, mostly dozing. Later in the evening we had friends over so they could see Michael and he could see them while he was in town. Molly Cat was quite a hostess; mingling, snuggling, and licking most everyone.

It was a great visit, but now I'm alone and miss him so much. When I got home from work yesterday, Michael had left a note and flowers for me. I'm lucky.

First Day

2008-10-28T22:07:00.003-05:00

Today was my first day in my new position at Halls. I'm the Merchandising Assistant for the buyers for Couture and Fine Jewelry. There was so much to learn today! I called a vendor, entered purchase orders, proofed and confirmed orders, am doing end of month reports, editing vendor files, etc all on the first day! Yipee skipee. I'm going to be busy! Plus, I totally dig my 9-5 schedule...leaving early is such a blessing that I forgot I came in an hour early.

After work, I ran an errand and then volunteered for Obama. YES! I called people to recruit them for volunteering. It was fun, I saw some people I knew, and made some new friends. All in all, a good day.

Boston Trip Oct. 25-27

2008-10-27T11:44:00.003-05:00

Since Saturday afternoon I've been here in Boston with Michael. Everything has been great. I'm still not a "big city" girl, but each trip I'm figuring out how it can work for me. First tip: avoid Newbury Street! The sidewalks are very narrow and there are way, way too many people crowded on them. Boylston is a good alternative. I've also learned to avoid the CVS on Boylston. There's a woman slumped in a wheel chair, unable to help herself, with a sign encouraging people to help the Multiple Sclerosis Society. Yesterday when Michael and I passed, I completely broke down into tears. It's just too much. Thankfully he was there, had his arm wrapped around me, protecting and comforting me as always.

We had dinner Saturday night at Bangkok City. Cheezy name, but pretty good food. The most memorable part of the meal was a round table of three old gay men ordering. One wanted "Wet Pad Thai" and the other wanted his "dry pad thai." You had to be there to hear it! Michael and I were totally cracking up. I told Michael in a soft low voice that I like it extra wet! We would have been rolling around laughing if we had been home!

Went to the Boston Symphony concert that evening and it was a very French modernism program that was very interesting. The Messiaen and the Boulez were more enjoyable than the Berlioz, though the principle violist totally rocked it out.

Yesterday morning we had brunch at Toro on Washington, just east of Massachusetts Ave. The food was so flipping amazing! I had brioche topped with acacia honey, apricots, and goat cheese alongside a lovey salad of arugula with pine nuts, and shaved mild cheese. I asked for a Bloody Mary and the waiter told me they don't serve alcohol before noon. Wow, did I ever feel like a lush. He ended up confessing that he'd made a mistake and served me one for free. Whew!

We walked around a ton, looking for a new winter coat for me. I bought a new down coat last year for nothing at Marshall's and the darn zipper broke and I gave the coat away. So now I need a new one that's better quality, etc. The only one that I found that I liked was a $900 Burberry coat at Saks. If I had $900 to spend, it'd be a great investment. The month I worked there I learned how amazing the quality is of their outerwear and I know the coat would last me many, many years. However, I ended up finding a coat at Macy's that I'll pick up in Kansas City when I'm home.

We had an okay meal at Dish, then went to the Bee Hive for some cocktails and live jazz. We weren't sure if we should stay, but when then combo started playing, "All the Things You Are" (my favorite standard thanks to Bill Marvin), I knew we'd have to stay.

This morning we got up very early to drive to Cape Cod. The best Volvo 1800 specialist in the country lives there and Michael decided to have a new dashboard installed. The drive was so beautiful. All the trees are changing colors and it was perfectly clear and sunny. After we dropped off the car, we stopped at a local farm, bought some bread, then made another stop for some tea, (though what I really wanted was warm cider and an apple doughnut). We came back to the city and no traffic either way! YES! Michael took me back stage at Symphony Hall and it was neat to see. He's coaching a quintet at NEC now and then he's going to show me Brookline; a nice suburb that's less than three miles from the City of Boston.

My flight's out this evening at 6. Thankfully, Michael's finally coming to Kansas City the day after Election Day and will be staying for almost six full days! YES! Hopefully I'll stay very busy between now and then because I'm starting my new position tomorrow!!

Busy

2008-10-20T08:27:00.003-05:00

So the last couple weeks have been full of busy and fun times! Went to Barbie's for Rosh Hashanah, and went the following week to Susan's for Yom Kippur. Been a loyal Pint Nite'r at Flying Saucer; today will make fourth week in a row (as long as I go). I had an awesome time at the Kemper Flip Gala Late Night Party with friends last weekend. I wish I could go out and dance and have tons of fun every weekend to live '80s music!

This weekend was the weekend of Meredith. Went to the symphony with Meredith Friday night. It was nice, but geez! I hate not hearing Michael play!!! It's not that I want him to be back here in the KCS, it's a dream come true he's in the Boston Symphony, but going to KCS is just not the same. It's hard. Saturday night went for Mexican with Meredith and Christopher. I was totally Debbie Downer. It'd been a very rough day with my dad returning from three weeks in Ukraine and I was totally having a very, very bad anxiety spell over it. Sunday I felt better though! Got up, did lots of things, hung out with Dad, then spent the evening at Casa Suarez where I felt like everyone tried to humor me by playing the Taboo game I brought. Does no one like to play games anymore except for me?

Today's the first day of my last week as the Links of London Specialist! I can't wait to get to my new little office next week when I return from seeing Michael in Boston!

Saturday evening

2008-10-04T20:27:00.003-05:00

I'm so frustrated that I haven't started my new job yet! I feel like Hall's is teasing me! On the other hand, I'm sure the buyers feel that Hall's is teasing them too; I'm just standing there! I must remember patience.

I finally know when I'm going to see Michael again! I'll be off to Boston the 25-27th. I'd love to catch another Red Sox game, but I can't be that lucky. I really miss him, but it helps to know when we'll see each other again. Not sure what the BSO will be playing that weekend, but it'll be great. Jimmy's conducting, that's for sure!

I'm in the preliminary stages of planning my second annual pumpkin carving party. Should be a fun group of girls for a fun time. Wish Madelyn was here for it!

Tomorrow I'm off to see Grandma since she broke her wrist. Should be a good visit. I miss Mom.

It's been too long

2008-09-27T19:35:00.002-05:00

It's been too long since my last post that I'm not sure I'll recap everything but here are the biggies:

My first week back at Hall's, I found out that the Merchandising Assistant for Couture and Fine Jewelry position was vacant. Holy cow did I jump on that! I talked my buyer's ear off daily, I interviewed, and found out Wednesday I got the job! YES!!! I am so excited to start though I don't know when that will be.

Wednesday morning I flew to Boston for opening night of the Boston Symphony. Was everyone dressed to the nines! I wore my black recital dress with a red wrap loaned to me by Lisa. I attended the cocktail hour before and when I went to pick up my ticket I couldn't believe the price: $1000!! And, it was FREE! I walked around the room sipping champagne and viewing the historic instruments. During the course of the evening about a half dozen ladies complimented the wrap and thought it was gorgeous! Thanks, Lisa!

The concert was amazing. When James Levine came out, the audience gave him a standing ovation! The orchestra began with a Glinka overture (which I played a transcription of at ESM horn choir), a beautiful Tchaikovsky aria, and then Pictures at an Exhibition. Oh my goodness was that principle tuba AMAZING! I've never heard the tuba solo played like that; it was great! After the concert Michael and I met up and rode a trolley over to this fancy-shmancy Boston hotel for a post concert dinner. The ballroom set with tables was something from out of the movies. It too was dressed to the nines. The three course meal was sumptuous, the people at our table were very pleasant to visit with, plus we got a party favor of a crystal votive with color applied Faberge. What a great souvenir. Michael was even recognized as one of the new members of the orchestra and was introduced to many contributors. How nice of the BSO to show their appreciation and respect for him.

I was so pleased to be able to be a part of the beginning of a new success for him. It was sad to leave on Thursday, but when I got there on Wednesday he asked me to stay. Perhaps one day I will.

Home.

2008-09-15T22:47:00.003-05:00

Boston was a lot of fun. My favorite parts of the trip were: 1. Michael, 2. Red Sox game, and 3. A shared cannoli from Mike's. Since I left Boston, "Sweet Caroline" has been running through my head non stop from that baseball game. It seems like there's so much tradition with Red Sox fans, it was so fun to immediately feel a part of it. Whenever the Red Sox would score, everyone would be high-fiving! The boys that kept having Michael and me stand up to get out of the aisle to either get more beer or pee were really nice. Every time I'd pass money down from the vendors, people would smile. There was just so many people smiling! Even when the Sox were down, people sitting around us were friendly and still smiling. I'm sure it's not always like that, but I'd like to think that it is.

My 6 a.m. Sunday morning flight home was really tiring. Plus, when I got to my Dad's, we couldn't find Molly for a really, really long time. At least an hour passed. I was scared, stressed, and got a headache. We finally found her; glad she was safe and healthy.

Even though I enjoyed my few days in Boston, I didn't love it like I remembered. I thought that I was more of a city girl, but my heart's in the midwest and especially the prairie. When I was a little girl, my grandmother gave me a light blue tee shirt with wheat on it that said, "Prairie Person." 'Suppose that's me.

BOSTON

2008-09-12T18:03:00.003-05:00

I arrived here in Boston Wednesday afternoon. Wasn't able to do much around the city because Michael had a rehearsal and performance for some corporate gig, and I was totally exhausted from getting up at 4am.

Yesterday was a busy day. We went to Flour for a sticky bun and coffee. The brownstone neighborhoods are really beautiful and there are moms everywhere with their carriages and kids, people walking all kinds of dogs, and the urban joggers. Michael and I walked all the way to the east end of Newbury Street, stopping in consignment shops, and then having a great lunch at Kashmir, an Indian restaurant.

After walking for a chunk of the day, I suggested that since it was rush hour, we walk to the South Bay Target. I was totally pumped for the adventure, since we saved $8 on public transportation and ten minutes in transit. However, when we got to the Target--it was totally ghetto. It was massive, a wreck, and they were so low on stock. We walked the 1.7 miles home, got in the car and drove about 30 minutes to IKEA. I love that store, but Michael gets frustrated, feels super contained and then has to get out of there. We drove from there to the North End for Italian, but the restaurant he wanted to take me to was totally full, and the kitchen was done! We had some not-so-special food, but then went to Mike's for an awesome cannoli. We were totally exhausted, and our feet were hurting but we slept hard.

This morning while at Whole Foods, we got a call from Michael's new friend, Henry. He invited us to his restaurant for breakfast with two tickets to the Red Sox v. Bluejays game tomorrow night! SCORE! We'd been wanting to go to a game, but not spend a fortune. Well, Henry did it for us! He's had these season tickets since the '70s, in the fourth row, between 3rd base and home plate! WOW!! We're totally pumped.

We had planned to eat at the top of the Prudential building tomorrow night for Michael's birthday, but since we've got the tickets, we're going to an Afgan restaurant, Helmand, for his birthday dinner, compliments of big brother, Jonathan. I've viewed the menu online and it looks amazing!

There are so many things that Boston has to offer, but I'm finding myself a little homesick. I definitely miss, "The Little Girl" (Molly).

priceline.com

2008-09-09T08:32:00.002-05:00

Who doesn't love priceline.com when it saves you $299.53 on a flight for a last minute trip to Boston? I couldn't believe the savings. When I put in my first bid and it was so far away from the actual prices, I thought that there was no way I'd get the flight but I did! So now I have something to do all week and I'll get to spend Michael's birthday with him. I can't wait to get back to Boston.

So I was on the phone with my friend Emily last night and we were talking about shopping. Thanks to Michael, I have learned the skills of research, negotiation, and as I like to call it, "treasure hunting." Yesterday I did a bit of hunting at Re Runs in Westport. I found a beautiful gold bracelet with leaves and pearls and two handkerchiefs. I can definitely wear the bracelet for opening night of the BSO later this month. Score!

I love my "prayer plant."

2008-09-08T20:15:00.003-05:00

Saturday was my last day at Burberry. YES! I can't wait to get back to the great, supportive family at Hall's.

Grandma and I were going to go on a road trip together to visit my great aunt Ann in Milwaukee, swing by Chicago and visit Emily, Leslie, and Dario. I got a call from Grandma this afternoon and this morning she fell and broke her wrist and the trip's off. I couldn't believe what she was telling me. I might still have a childish trait, thinking my grandparents are invincible. We were both really looking forward to our trip and are bummed it's not going to work out.

Went to church with Dad for the first time in months and it was great to see my friends there. It's just incredibly hard to work, spend time with a friend on a Saturday night, then get up at 6:30 to shower, and then drive half an hour to meet Dad for the 8:15am service. I wish St. Andrew was closer to downtown.

Molly is such a naughty kitty! She has been chewing my "prayer plant" and it really makes me mad! She started doing it the last Saturday, the day before Michael left for Boston and she hasn't let up. Last week I bought wheat grass seeds and planted grass for her. It's out, next to her favorite spot, and I even sprinkled cat nip on and around it to make it extra attractive. That little stinker chews on the grass but is still wanting the "prayer plant." Guess the next step is to find a spray for the plant that will make it taste bad to her. If that doesn't work, I'll need some suggestions. That "prayer plant" is just so sentimental to me and I can't have her wrecking it!

Hump Day

2008-09-03T21:43:00.003-05:00

Yesterday evening I got to see Brian, Madely, and Elliot in their new house! Wow! I am so happy for the three of them (almost four of them). Madelyn is a beautiful pregnant person and Elliot is chattering up a storm! That little kid is pretty spectacular. Dinner was awesome too--I need some lessons from her.

Worked all day then spent the evening with Dad. He picked me up after work and we had dinner at Bo Ling's off the Plaza. I really, really like that Bo Ling's location. It reminds me of Chinese restaurants of my childhood. Everything is red and I love the "tucked in" feeling of those booths.

We went to hear the St. Louis Symphony Orchestra Trombones. Saw Roger and Ilan there and met the new bass trombonist and his wife: Graeme and Brandee. It was nice to see people and the quartet was fun too. Glad to switch it up a bit.

Planning a road trip with Grandma to visit a great aunt in Milwaukee. Four days in the car with Grandma should prove to inspire some interesting blog entries.

Alone.

2008-09-01T21:21:00.005-05:00

Yesterday I quit my job at Burberry. What a relief. I'm glad to be going back to Halls in two weeks. I receive incredible support there, but I need to find something that's more stimulating. Yesterday I felt motivated and energized and this evening I feel stressed out with a headache.

It wasn't fun working; missing the Labor Day parties. Michael's in Boston now and I feel totally alone and empty without him. I knew this would be hard.

An Exciting Time to be Alive

2008-08-30T08:45:00.000-05:00

So, how exciting it is that Barack Obama is the Democratic nominee for President! His speech at the convention Thursday night was so powerful and again, inspiring! I haven't been much of a praying person the past few years, but I feel the urge to pray for his and his family's safety. I really wish for at least four years of Obama-Biden!

So yesterday was my last trip running errands with Michael for quite a while. The post office was a nightmare. It would be perfect material for an episode of, "Curb Your Enthusiasm." We also went to Target which was fun like always, and then we had to work in a new restaurant (for me), Mr. Gyros. It was good, but boy oh boy did my fingers reek of gyro all afternoon, even after washing them three times!

Took Helga to have her foot operated on and she did great! Michael came up to her apartment and finally got to see how amazing it is. After I reminded her about all the things she needed to do to care for her foot, and offering my assistance as much as possible, I found that I was being overly-helpful. She's an incredible lady who is so smart, independent, and incredibly determined. I just love Helga.

Yesterday ended by a marvelous dinner at Fred and Julia's. I did much better at this dinner than the one before. This time, I expected many courses and paced myself really well. Last time, the pasta Fred made was so delicious and I didn't know there would be more food to come, that I had several servings of pasta and then could hardly finish the remaining courses. We all had a great time together, except I goofed and started crying at the table in regards to Michael leaving for Boston.

Today is Michael's last day in Kansas City and I have to work during most of it. What a bummer.

I like to play hostess

2008-08-28T08:54:00.000-05:00

I've been living in my loft since February and I had my first overnight guest (Michael doesn't count). I went to Eastman with Elise and it was really good to see her again and share what's been going on in each other's life in the past year. I enjoy having company over, especially friends that aren't savvy to the area. Midwest Pride, right here.

Work is, hmm...ridiculous. I can't understand how a business is successful (and even that's debatable) with such shaky leadership. I miss The Halls.

Tuesday night Michael and I went to Michael Davis' house for an amazing dinner of pasta. Oh my gosh, that guy can cook. I tried a new recipe for blueberry almond cookies and took some over. The cookies contained lemon zest and Davis served limoncello; what a perfect coincidental pairing!

Only a few more days before Michael leaves for Boston. :-(

Make lemonade, seriously.

2008-08-26T08:05:00.000-05:00

So the saying goes, "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade." I've had run-ins with family, friends, colleagues, strangers, and the two most important lessons that I've learned are 1. Don't take it personally, and 2. It's, "their stuff." Meaning, don't take it personally because it's an issue the other person needs to work through. It hasn't been an easy habit for me to make for myself (this thinking), but it's worth the struggle, so make lemonade!

Work is well...I have good days and bad days. That's all I want to say about that for now.

Last night Michael and I made Thai food and we were our usual speedy team of "Annie Sugarlane" and "Tom Undermount." SOOO GOOD! Made me think of some friends who lived in Thailand for a while, and the night before I wore my hot pink Thai lounge pants. YES! We went to the Flying Saucer for $2.75 pint night, had a couple (Overture to) Oberon beers, and met all the new symphony people for this year. Seems like a nice, fun group.

My first blog

2008-08-23T14:38:00.000-05:00

So after reading Madelyn's blog many times, I decided this is the perfect time to start a blog. I've started a new job as a Key Holder at Burberry, Michael's moving to play with the Boston Symphony, and I'm looking to the MS Society and Wayside Waifs to begin regular volunteering along with my regular blood donations.

Can I get a big, "Oy Vey!" Michael leaves for Boston a week from today. :-( Last night, we went out to Westport to try out Blanc Burger. The atmosphere was the slickest we've found in KC, but the food, not as happening. It was good, but we like great burgers so the only place to go is the Flea Market. It was a fun evening though. First time we've ever "pre gamed" at home and then when we were out, I unintentionally embarrassed Michael by ordering a Shirley Temple.

This morning after having coffee at the Filling Station, we found one of the two Frank Lloyd Wright houses in KC. The old Valentine/Roanoke neighborhood is so beautiful and the house was tucked away from the road. We chose not to venture down the drive on a Saturday morning--maybe we'll hit it up again when the owners are at work during the week! Also went hunting for Drummond houses in old Leawood. I wasn't thrilled, but that's as modern as you get in KC.